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Plain and Ordinary

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I’m always startled by how ordinary true spirituality is.

I recently watched my wife’s uncle care for his dying wife. In his mid-eighties, he never missed a beat in her daily care, always by her side, even as she appeared not to recognize him near the end.

I recently observed a woman in our church “shadowing” a special-needs child so that his parents could enjoy a worship service with no distractions. A simple but profound act of service.

Years ago, the parents of a stillborn child told me how an anonymous giver had paid for the funeral costs. The parents were virtually penniless at the time. There was no “brick” with the donor’s name on it. Or gold-plated plaque in the narthex. Just an anonymous gift to a poor couple in grief.

Those acts comprise the essence of God’s kingdom. Virtually invisible, they hold out hope for those of us who still think of spirituality as religion. It’s not. It’s the cup of cold water in Jesus name. Plain. Ordinary. In the moment.

Where have you seen the kingdom of God advancing in ordinary ways in your neighborhood?

2 Responses to “Plain and Ordinary”

  1. Stan Friedman Says:

    A neighbor was able to go out of town for a couple days and leave her elderly mother at home because a church member checked in twice a day on the mother, making sure she ate and took her medication.

    When my guitar cracked, preventing me from leading worship, a couple bought a $1,200 guitar for me when I couldn’t have afforded a $100 instrument. I was waiting tables at the time, and the couple – who I knew – wrote me a check while at the restaurant. I told fellow workers I gave such good service the people left me a $1,200 tip.

    People at a church here pick up three blind and learning disabled individuals and bring them to service, help them to the fellowship time afterward, take them to the bathroom and also drive them home every Sunday.

  2. Administrator Says:

    those are amazing acts of pure service

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Advance Praise for
Death by Suburb


"Death by Suburb ... addresses and overcomes the split in our religion, our lifestyles, and even our consciousness."
—Fr. Richard Rohr, O.F.M., author of Everything Belongs: The Gift of Contemplative Prayer

"With a compassion born of his own experiences of suburban unreality and dysfunction, Goetz effectively evokes a thicker sense of our social and religious worlds."
—Leigh Schmidt, Princeton University, author of Restless Souls: The Making of American Spirituality

"Goetz sees the parched lives, the truncated spirits beneath the suburban bliss, and the grace too. In his gracious eyes suburbia begins to look like an outbreak of the Kingdom of God."
—William H. Willimon, author of Sinning Like a Christian