Tips for
Small Group Study


1. Use Death by Suburb as an 8-week study on the spiritual disciplines.

2. Each week study one of the 8 chapters that explain the suburban toxins and the spiritual practices that counter them.

3. Download the free discussion guide for a list of questions to guide the discussion for each chapter.

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Practice 5

ENVIRONMENTAL TOXIN: The thinking that meaning in life comes from “making a difference” (results) in someone else’s life, the thinking that significance comes from impacting the world.

SPIRITUAL PRACTICE: To move from the pursuit of trying to make a difference with my life to simple, obedience to the things of God. We pursue action, not results.

KEY QUOTE: In Chapter 6 (Shirker Service), Goetz writes, “I confess that I am a Shirker. I want results when I serve the poor, the imprisoned, the destitute. I want results because I want to make a difference with my life. What good is serving the poor if they don’t help themselves and turn their lives around?”

KEY DISCUSSION POINTS:

* The notion of making a difference with your life is healthy in the Christian young. Later, though, it’s a sign of a tiny bloated soul.

* We don’t control outcomes as we serve the poor, the needy. Only God does. We can only control our obedience to that which God wants us to do.

* Obedience always requires sacrifice, obedience always brings its own reward.

Advance Praise for
Death by Suburb


"Death by Suburb ... addresses and overcomes the split in our religion, our lifestyles, and even our consciousness."
—Fr. Richard Rohr, O.F.M., author of Everything Belongs: The Gift of Contemplative Prayer

"With a compassion born of his own experiences of suburban unreality and dysfunction, Goetz effectively evokes a thicker sense of our social and religious worlds."
—Leigh Schmidt, Princeton University, author of Restless Souls: The Making of American Spirituality

"Goetz sees the parched lives, the truncated spirits beneath the suburban bliss, and the grace too. In his gracious eyes suburbia begins to look like an outbreak of the Kingdom of God."
—William H. Willimon, author of Sinning Like a Christian